Every year since having kids I feel like the holidays get closer and closer to what I remember them feeling like as a child. I feel like once I was ‘no longer a child’ but before I had my own, the holidays had lost a bit of that Magic. Sure they were still wonderful and beautiful and filled with new memories with family and friends, but something was missing. There is something about viewing holidays through the lenses of a child that adds so much to those extra special days. For example, the simple act of taking an egg and changing the color of its shell… for years my husband and I didn’t even bother. Once our oldest was at an age in which he could engage in the activity though we jumped at the chance and low and behold probably had more fun than he did! Lol. Every new year seems to bring a little bit more of that magic back for us. Now, watching our children experience the holidays together, well I truly can’t think of anything better than that. There was so much squealing and giggling and giddy excitement on Saturday when we dyed our eggs for Easter morning breakfast. Of course, there were a few tears shed, mainly by the wee one who still struggles to wait his turn and understand the flow of the activity.. but we had an absolute blast together. We dyed 2 dozen eggs but I believe the boys could’ve easily done 20. Next year we may have to do more, or maybe start earlier in the week, we shall see! I’m already nostalgic looking back on these images from just a few weeks ago. I can’t imagine how I will feel in 20 years time, but I am so very thankful to have these images to rummage up past memories for me. I hope your Easter was as blessed as ours.
Baby Eastyn is the 6th child and 5th daughter of my good friends from Church. I was just floored when her mommy asked me to come and document her transition into their family! At just three weeks baby Eastyn was already showing us her fiery personality. This little one is not going to be forgotten, that’s for sure! She has five older siblings to keep up with and I have no doubt she will. Big sister Blake was reveling in her opportunity to be a big sister for the first time. I am very excited to see the relationship grow between these two. They already seem thick as thieves. If you are looking to book a session hop on over to my contact info and send me a quick message!
Spring has sprung and I can hardly believe it! I thought I was going to get so much done this winter… Hmm. Guess it will have to wait! We are eager to get outside but are definitely struggling a bit with our transition from indoor hibernation to our mainly outdoor daily lifestyle. I’m trying to ease us into it as much as possible but transitions are hard on kids (and all of us really) no matter how you go about it. I feel that these in between seasons in the Midwest are particularly difficult because one day we may be outside in jackets playing for hours, and the next day it may be snowing or too windy or cold to be out much. The kids never know what to expect from their day and that can be extremely challenging and frustrating for them, especially since they depend on that consistency and predictability in their day until they are able to comprehend time as well as days, months, and seasons. I try to do as much prep work as I can in the weeks leading up to a big seasonal change, and I do notice that it takes the edge off, but it’s still a struggle. One way I prepped with the boys this year is by talking a lot about the upcoming Spring Equinox. We make sure to celebrate each seasonal change because it is one way which helps kids with the processing component that a transition is about to happen. We also feel that the start of each new season is exciting and something to be grateful for, and thus worth celebrating! This year we celebrated the beginning of Spring by painting pots and planting zinnias. The boys have been asking to make a fairy garden to attract butterflies and hummingbirds so this is our first step in the process. The boys really dove into this project and had a wonderful time personalizing their pots (so they can tell them apart) and planting their seeds. They have been caring for them tediously all week and today we notice that two of the pots have sprouted! I am REALLY hoping that third one does too but I already told that little plant daddy that if it doesn’t we will replant some new ones and try again. Keep your fingers crossed for him okay!? Here’s a little glimpse at our activity.
My husband and I work hard to teach our children that they are the only ones who have access to their feelings. We teach them that no one can *make* you feel or not feel anything, and that anything you do feel is valid. We teach them that we all have the power to react or not react. And that no one can steal our happiness, but instead it’s something we can choose or choose not to give away. But one can teach all day and all night; we know via research and experience that kids do much better with what they see than what they hear.. Some things are easy to model.. others.. such as holding your tongue when you really want to let loose or choosing happiness instead of wallowing in the offenses of someone who hurt you… are not quite as easy. But children are our best teachers, are they not? And they bring us a multitude of opportunities to be our best selves. They push us to grow and morph into who we desire them to be. They require us to look deep inside ourselves, confront all of our insecurities, weaknesses, and demons. They require more of us, better of us, they require us to find happiness amid the shadows of life. And for that I am grateful. So my friends remember this the next time you find yourself in the dark shadows of life. No one can steal your happiness. Choose to see the light amid all the darkness. And dance in it. ❤️